Endings #4: Breakups About Chronic Illness (…and sex and babies)

March 20th On today’s show — the first of a two-part episode during our series on Endings — Jacqueline speaks with two women who recently underwent breakups they attribute to their chronic illnesses: Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome (POTS) and Interstitial Cystitis. They both reached out to J after reading her Cosmopolitan essay, How I Learned…

The Art of Breaking Up

March 13th On today’s show, we discussed the fine art of breaking up with writer and fellow Heritage host Sari Kamin. And as is our new break-the-tension tactic, we split the midde of the show with a game: Breakup Mad Libs. Combing the internet for a source so that I didn’t have to expend precious creativity…

Endings #3: Breaking Up is Hard To Do, with Sari Kamin

March 13th “When at the age of 31-yrs old my boyfriend of five years broke up with me I was deeply heartbroken but also stunned that I was no longer on the path of getting engaged, getting married, and having children by the age of 35. That was the course that I had seen so…

Unrequited Love with Author Lisa A. Phillips

FEBRUARY 1ST, 2015 We’ve all experienced some sort of unrequited love; pining over someone who doesn’t quite realize the romantic possibilities we can so clearly see. But what happens when affection turns into obsession? When our desires have so much control over us that we can’t see the world clearly? On today’s show, we talk…

Ben Speaks: The Examined Life

(The following is Ben’s response to our Why We Didn’t Work series. Listen to his episode here, find more about the project here, and read Jacqueline’s response here.) “The unexamined life is not worth living.” – Socrates Yeah, those ancient Greeks knew some shit. I’m not ashamed to admit I’ve been in therapy for a long…

“Why We Didn’t Work” with Diana Gasperoni

JANUARY 18TH, 2016 When you were in your last relationship, were you always honest with your feelings? Did you relay them openly to your partner? What about while breaking up? Has the story about why you broke up changed with some and hindsight, and could you be more honest with that ex now than maybe…

“Why Didn’t We Work?” with Vienna Pharaon

JANUARY 11TH, 2016 “Breaking up is hard to do,” goes the old Neil Sedaka song. But when you’ve got a radio show about establishing new and long-lasting relationships, sometimes you’ve got to push past any lingering “what ifs?” and get to the root of the issue. So on today’s show, Ben presents a list of…

Erin Fairbanks Talks Really Hard Relationships

DECEMBER 7TH, 2015 We’re all for crazy love. The kind that kisses and consumes you. The kind the flames quickly and dies, and the kind that burns on embers indefinitely. There is no right kind of way to love (well, stalking and dangerous stuff aside, of course). Loving is loving, and we wanna hear stories…

Editor Jesse Hirsch Talks Food Work and Break Ups

NOVEMBER 23RD, 2015 This week, Jacqueline swaps her general positivity for crank (as she wrote recently for BlogHer). So Ben grills her about dates canceling the day of, how ghosting is socially acceptable now, and how singletons keep their cool with friend after friend pairs off and disappears. What can we be doing to date…

Shit! This show’s gonna affect our dating lives.

Pretty early on, we realized that our dating lives were going to be a major focus of the show. But we didn’t quite anticipate how the show was going to affect our dating lives. We’re pushing for full disclosure on Love Bites; being honest, vulnerable, brave and open regarding what we share with our listeners. But some of…

Ben Speaks: Haunted by Endings

In our first BEN SPEAKS blog post, Ben contemplates why, at some level, he fears commitment. Because, as he says, “it always ends.”